My client tells me that he just can’t find a woman that he’s interested in, and I know we’re in real trouble as he goes on to tell me, “I’m looking for woman that I can have an intelligent conversation with.” Over the years that I’ve coached men into awesome relationships with women, I’ve noticed a pattern with guys who make this statement. They’re all too smart for their own good, and none of them know how to have fun.
Most of these guys will either be engineers, scientists, computer programmers, or in the financial industry. When asked if they think they know how to have fun, surprisingly they will all answer yes. When I ask about the last time they had fun, the answer will be one of two things. Either it was something deeply intellectual or something they spent a crap-load of cash on.
I will then ask them the following question, my measuring stick for “do you truly know how to have fun.”
What if I dropped you into the center of Las Vegas, on a Tuesday at 2:00 pm, with only your I.D. and the cloths on your back? No cellphone, no credit cards, no cash, and no friends. What would you do? No matter what they say they would do, I know that in reality they would all find the closest pay phone to make a collect call for a “rescue.” The correct answer is have fun making new friends.
Most intelligent guys think that the average woman is of below average intelligence. The reality of the situation is that most women are so bored by these guys that they avoid talking with them. A guy will ask them something incredibly boring like, “So, what do you think about our current socio-economic condition?” The woman he’s talking to may have a Ph.D. but he’s never going to learn that because she will just smile uncomfortably as she walks away. The guy will wrongfully assume that she wasn’t smart enough to know what “socio-economic” means.
Take a look at the above picture. If I told you that the attractive girl in this picture was a cheerleader for the Dallas Cowboys you would probably believe me, but I’d be lying. What if I told you that she has a Ph.D. and the lucky guy she is on top of has the amazing ability to have fun?
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