You already know that the world’s best training ground for learning how to flirt with women is Las Vegas. If you’re a regular reader of my blog, you also know I’ve lived here for a little over five years. In my time here I’ve seen students progress from shuddering creepy guys, to men who can literally talk the pants off of women. I’ve also been fortunate enough to meet some other Vegas locals, who like me, are professionals at it. I’m about to teach you three elusive concepts that all the pros know about flirting with women.
Concept One: Sarcasm is the opposite of flirting. Sarcasm is saying something good and meaning something bad. Flirting is saying something bad and meaning something good. Understanding the difference is crucial for success. An example of sarcasm would be rolling your eyes as you say, “You’re the smartest girl I’ve ever talked with.” You said something good, but she knows you really think she’s an idiot. An example of flirting would be looking at her with a sly smile and saying, “You seem dangerous. My grandmother told me to avoid girls like you.” You said something bad, but she knows you really think she’s fun. If you do the opposite of flirting, you will get the opposite results.
Concept Two: Flirting isn’t sexual. Flirting is nothing more than playfully talking to a girl you may be interested in, to figure out if you actually are interested in her. Some guys think flirting is sexual, and they will walk up to a girl and say something idiotic, like “Nice ass. Can I try bouncing a quarter off of it?” Remember that the flirting process is the same for her in that she will playfully talk with you, if you seem like a guy she may be interested in, so she can figure out if she is interested in you. If you say anything sexual before she’s interested in you, you greatly hurt your chances that she will become interested in you.
Concept Three: Ambiguity. As things progress, there is a magical grey area between flirting and being overtly sexual. Once you know you’re interested in her and she knows she’s interested in you, the key to angling toward the bedroom is ambiguity. You may say something such as “I like you. You can be my girlfriend for the next 5 minutes.” If she says anything negative (saying something bad and meaning something good) in response to that, you smile and say, “Wow, I’m glad I’ll be out of this relationship in another four and a half minutes,” (saying something bad and meaning something good). “Ah, but we’ll always have the memories.” And just like that, you’re back to flirting. You keep this playful ambiguity going until she says something like “If I’m your girlfriend, I should probably take you home and give you a backrub.”
If you would like to learn more about flirting, have a look at my third book, Magnetic Interactions: Secrets of the Alpha Male Book 3.
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