Most guys are so focused on getting laid that they don’t care about using the right type of attraction. They think that if a girl sleeps with them, they win, and if she doesn’t, they lose. While this is a perfect game plan to lose your virginity, men who have mastered the game know that there is a right type of attraction and a wrong type of attraction. Play the game like an amateur, and suffer the consequences. Learn to play the game like a master, and you’ll get more ass than a public toilet seat.
There are two types of attraction a girl can feel for a man. The first type of attraction is success attraction. It happens when a girl sees a man with money and power. She becomes attracted to the money and power as she imagines that having sex with him will result in her getting access to those resources. She desires the man as a provider. But as a man, filling the provider role is dangerous because she’s attracted to your success, not you. The relationship is setup as a trade, money for sex, in which she is a prostitute, and you are a sucker.
The second and more rare type of attraction is emotional attraction. When a girl is approached by a man who ignites an emotional inferno deep inside her soul, that will light fire to her dreams until the day she dies, she becomes irreversibly attracted to him. She desires him as a lover. As a man, filling this lover role is easy, if you know how to initiate it.
I believe that on a gut level all men know that they want to be a lover rather than a provider. When a young guy first starts to approach girls, he has a naïve notion that the girl should just “like him for who he really is, on the inside.” He’ll walk up to the girl, tell her how beautiful she is, that he would like to go out with her sometime, and ask for her phone number. He’s devastated when this approach fails time after time. His ego takes a massive hit as he asks himself, “Can’t these girls see that I’m a nice guy?”
One day this guy will discover that women are attracted to success. He will learn that by wearing expensive clothes and an expensive watch, and by driving an expensive car, a slight variation of his original pickup line will work, but only sometimes. He will say: “You’re beautiful. I’d like to buy you an expensive dinner. What’s your phone number?” While this approach won’t always work, it will work occasionally. He’ll then work himself to death trying to collect more and more expensive possessions as he realizes that the more successful he appears, the greater his chances of getting laid. Unfortunately, he has yet to realize that women are attracted to his possessions and not to him. The women are all gold-diggers, and he’s just a sucker.
Years later he may own a Lamborghini but by now he’s realized that the women are attracted to his car, not him. While the Lamborghini will get him laid, he’ll become bitter because he wants to be a lover, but doesn’t know how. His life will start to resemble the practical joke from the video below…
One day, a “professional” may sink her teeth into him, chew him up, and spit him out, as was the case in Dr. “Dave’s” sad story. Because Dr. Dave never learned how to generate emotional attraction, he had never felt what it was like to have a woman desire him as a lover. This blindness allowed a stripper to con him into thinking she was in love with him, which ultimately cost him over a million dollars and his dignity.
Or possibly he marries a nice girl who devastates him even worse than a stripper. He’ll think he found “the one” and his wife may help facilitate this delusion, but without him knowing how to generate emotional attraction, the relationship is doomed for ultimate failure.
I know you’re inclined to think that your story will somehow end up differently, but I’m here to tell you that without learning how to generate emotional attraction, it’s impossible. You must learn how to ignite an emotional inferno so deep inside of a woman’s soul that it will light fire to her dreams for the remainder of her days. Read the story of Sue Jones, and be amazed to learn about a woman whose husband gave her everything, but because he never generated emotional attraction, she became bitter and hateful, and finally divorced him.
The punch line to this joke is in the date of its publication, February 14th, Valentine’s Day. Women crave emotional attraction on a very real and deep level but it’s so rare to find that many, like Sue Jones, have given up looking for it because so few men have mastered the art.
As a man, you have a choice to make right now. Are you going to be a provider or a lover? Will you work your ass off to reach a point in your life where you’re nothing more than a sucker living with a prostitute? Or will you dedicate your life to learning how to have amazing emotional, sensual, and sexual relationships with women? Do you want a woman to take everything from you in divorce court or give you her heart, body, and soul for all of eternity? When you’re ready to learn the right type of attraction, decades of experience have gone into these books.
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