When it comes to the topics of building muscle and getting laid, I wish someone who knew what they were talking about could have just been honest with me. Unfortunately, most of the world’s pickup artist instructors and personal trainers don’t know the truth about testosterone, and the ones who do are lying to you. You’re about to learn the truth.
Before we can dive into the truth together, we first need to talk about why everyone is either ignorant or lying. I call this the politics of testosterone and estrogen. Why is it that society labels testosterone as taboo? Society treats testosterone like a disease. People confuse assertiveness with aggression and have embarked on a campaign of turning little boys into little girls, claiming that lower testosterone will “fix” them. The reason for this is very simple: You cannot control an alpha male. Let me explain…
First, know that I speak from decades of experience. Not only do I have a unique pile of research data from building alpha males through my Total Experience Immersion training program but I have personal experience mapping my own hormone level lab results to my success or failure in the gym, with women, and how I feel. I have suffered through the results of very low testosterone and I have benefited from the results of what some may consider very high testosterone. Here’s what I know…
Testosterone will not make you aggressive. Period. End of story. Wait, what? Many people think that testosterone makes men aggressive. This is like saying sugar makes you fat. Have you ever seen a skinny person eat an apple? A large apple has 23 grams of sugar while a Snickers candy bar only has 20 grams of sugar. The point is that things aren’t that simple. Your body is a very complex chemistry set. Paying attention to testosterone levels without factoring in everything else going on in the chemistry set is a sure way to be completely wrong about everything.
Take a guy with low testosterone and inject him with 1 cc of 200 mg testosterone cypionate. Then ask him how he feels a few days later. Will he get “roid rage” or will he actually be more pleasant to be around? Surprise! He will be happier, more pleasant, and well adjusted. Doctors who specialize in “anti-aging” and “testosterone replacement therapy” actually do this as a sales tool. They know that any new patient considering the doctor’s services will feel awesome, and will not experience any “roid rage.” In fact, they will feel so good that this is like a crack dealer giving some free product away to get you wanting more.
So, is roid rage a myth? Let me explain the chemistry set that is the male body. Unfortunately, the male body responds to high levels of testosterone by converting that testosterone into estrogen through a process called aromatase. For some men, this begins to happen at relatively low testosterone levels. For other men, testosterone levels need to become insanely high for long periods of time before anything happens. Most of what people call roid rage is from this jump in estrogen. Yup, it’s actually the girly chemical that’s got guys out of whack. When some idiot buys steroids illegally from Mexico, has no idea what he’s doing, and doesn’t get bloodwork, very bad things happen. As if the purity of Mexican pharmaceuticals isn’t enough to fuck them all up, they have no idea their estrogen levels are shooting to the moon and no idea what to do when they start growing female breast tissue because of it.
The answer is to do it correctly. If you are over 35 years old and have low testosterone, go to a testosterone replacement therapy doctor. They will regularly do bloodwork, monitor your estrogen levels, and give you an anti-aromatase medication like Anastrozole (better known as Arimidex) if you need it. The point is this: patients seeing a legitimate testosterone replacement therapy doctor do NOT get roid rage.
But even if you could get society to look at the data and understand the chemistry, testosterone would still be taboo. As I said at the beginning of this article, “You cannot control an alpha male.” Remove the estrogen from the equation and follow me on the next realization.
A three-year-old girl isn’t very assertive. She is dependent on her parents to feed and protect her. And if she throws a temper tantrum, it’s easy to physically subdue a miniature 32-pound person. In other words, she learns to be docile because she has no other choice.
Take a 20-year-old boy with low testosterone and high estrogen, and you have the exact same thing. He will bitch, moan, and cry, but authority will always win. It’s very difficult to be assertive when anyone can overpower you both mentally and physically.
Now consider the high testosterone state, which makes a man alpha. An alpha male isn’t dependent on anyone, so he never has to express his views in accordance with the views of a group he needs things from. He sees political correctness as insane as a farmer arguing with his chickens. This is why he always speaks his mind: because he can. This is assertiveness, not aggression. Here’s the thing though, and the most important part: If someone attempts to exercise power over him, not only will he tell them to fuck off, he’s physically ready with zero fear should they initiate force against him. Initiate physical force against him and he will destroy you. Literally.
This is why the hidden ones in power have bent society to make testosterone taboo. Not because it makes men attack innocent people but because the government can only control the docile and frightened. So they have to ensure that the population is weak with no fight in them. Additionally, estrogen tends to make people illogical and emotional, which are the easiest people to control.
Let me put a sharper point on this. If testosterone is bad because it makes people violent, why aren’t we talking about how estrogen is bad because it makes people stupid? Yes, I just said that. Because estrogen makes people more emotional, and emotional people make the worst decisions, how is it that no one sees estrogen destroying our country from the voting booth? Consider our divorce laws. When was the last time an alpha male got a few million dollars out of the wife he didn’t want to fuck anymore??? Never.
Society says testosterone makes men aggressive. I tell you that estrogen is far worse. An alpha male will fight you if you try to steal from him. A group of high-estrogen women will give power over to the government so that the government steals from everyone else for them. One of these groups is better known as “Women in Divorce Court” and another is known as “Single Moms on Welfare.” So if you’re going to put all the high testosterone people in prison, then it’s time to take away the high estrogen people’s right to vote. If it is wrong for a man (no matter what his testosterone level is) to initiate physical force against anyone (assault), then it is also wrong for a woman to use the government to initiate physical force to steal someone else’s money (taxes, also known as income redistribution under the threat of incarceration).
Testosterone and Muscle
Ask a professional bodybuilder how he got so big, and he will tell you he owes everything to a specific supplement company. Then ask him if they sponsor him. Walk into a nutrition store, spend $500 on products, and 30 days later go back in and ask the manager why you don’t look any different. Buy a month of personal training, and then ask why your progress is almost non-existent. Or try this: Buy the brand of supplements the pro bodybuilder recommended, from that nutrition store, while receiving personal training, and then… wonder why everything together does so very little to get you the washboard abs and tree-trunk arms you see on magazine covers.
The professional bodybuilder isn’t going to admit that his results are mostly steroids because even if he was comfortable telling you about his illegal steroid use, he needs to sell you on his sponsor’s product.
The nutrition store’s manager can only sell you what’s on his shelves, because he would go to jail if he sold you testosterone, and telling you his supplements won’t do much without extra testosterone is the worst sales pitch ever.
The personal trainer is a little longer story. If I walk into the average ‘24 Hour Fitness,’ Anywhere, USA and look at the personal trainers, most are a fucking embarrassment to their profession. Seriously, I make no exaggeration here. They don’t exactly look like they belong on the cover of Men’s Fitness Magazine. Most are at best, not fat. In other words, I never understood how the hell someone walks into these places and thinks to themselves, “Wow, yeah, I want to spend a shitload of time, pain, and money to eventually look just like this sad excuse for a fitness professional.” I would think that anyone with half a brain wouldn’t waste that kind of money for mediocre results. It’s like buying a motorcycle from a dude in a wheelchair.
That being said, a minority percentage of personal trainers are in fact in awesome shape. These are the guys you look at and wonder if they are even human. Now that is someone you want training you, except for one problem. Their clients never get even half the results, even if they take everything their trainer says like a new religion to be followed exactly. Why? Because mediocre testosterone levels produce mediocre results, at best. Awesome results can only be achieved from awesome testosterone levels. End of story.
Most personal trainers in awesome shape would go to jail if the DEA knew what substances they used. In fairness, some have a doctor they are working with and have prescriptions for these substances. But in either case, what are the chances that a personal trainer is going to tell a new potential client the truth? The truth is that his house was built with testosterone, the only supplement that matters.
Now there is one more category of personal trainer in awesome shape that I have to mention, but they are almost as rare as seeing a fucking unicorn. I have one friend who is a unicorn. This guy swore for years that he never used steroids. I called bullshit at first, but then I got to know him. As it turned out, this dude was blessed with abnormally high testosterone, and low estrogen. It wasn’t until he finally got a blood test done that he realized this. For years, he thought he was just like all his clients, that they were just all pussies for not being able to grow. So after that, do you think he disclosed this to anyone he was selling personal training to? Nope.
My point is this: Maybe you’re a unicorn. I doubt it. If you’re a regular dude like me, it’s not going to happen without more testosterone. Now realize that I’m not giving advice on what you should or shouldn’t do. I just want you to know the truth. At least you know the rules of the game if you decide to play. Otherwise, you’ll waste time, money, and energy thinking you too can be a unicorn.
Testosterone and Picking Up Women
As I said before, I have experienced ridiculously low testosterone and I’ve also experienced what some might call very high testosterone. Without experiencing both, I could have never understood what I’m about to tell you about testosterone and getting laid.
You already knew that higher testosterone helps you across the board with women. You’re better looking, more fearless on the first kiss, and so on. There is no research data showing that a girl will find you more attractive when you have less testosterone. What I’m about to teach you is far more valuable than the “girls love confidence and muscles” thing that everyone keeps repeating. Ready for it?
Using the word “low” here is a wild understatement. At one point in my life, my testosterone was so embarrassingly low that every aspect of my life became the punchline to a very cruel joke. At that time, I had been teaching pickup for years, but even though my knowledge and experience was progressing, I felt like it just wasn’t working like it used to. I was slowly losing my superpower, and it wasn’t until I got it back that I learned the most important thing a pickup coach can learn:
There is one set of rules for the alphas, another set of rules for the betas, and most alphas never understand what this truly means.
The low testosterone version of me could dress well, be freshly groomed, say all the right things… and never get laid. Rather than concurring the vagina with the reward that is my magnificent erection, I would end up “bonding” with the girl, just like I was her best gay friend, lucky to get a hug at the end of the night. FUCK THAT!
In contrast, high testosterone me could look like I just walked out of a four-and-a-half month stay in the Ted Kaczynski cabin, desperately in need of a shower, shave, clean cloths, and human interaction. And what happened when I talked to girls? It didn’t matter. I could have food stains on my shirt, say mean things, and still find women wanting to sleep with me. WTF?
With high testosterone, a practical understanding of evolutionary psychology, and some practice, I could literally walk up to a girl and ask, “What flavor of bowling ball do you prefer?” and before I finished the question, she was already sliding off her chair from the wetness in her panties. This is no exaggeration. But with low testosterone, it took everything I had to open with that exact same question, only to have to work very hard just to keep the conversation going.
Know this: Guys who are naturally good with women tend to have higher testosterone. If you are learning pickup from a coach who has never experienced low testosterone, they are blind as to why their coaching doesn’t quite seem to work for lower testosterone guys (who are most of their clients). It’s like my bowling ball example above, it’s always worked for him but he can’t understand why you can’t just be more confident and make it work. People tend to be blind to what they have never seen. The teacher can’t see why it isn’t working while at the same time the student can’t see why it is working.
So is my advice that you need to start shooting steroids if you want to get good with women? Nope, actually the opposite.
As the saying goes, you can’t get by on your looks. If you want to learn pickup, I mean truly learn pickup, practice pickup in its purest form, no cheating. It’s not the good-looking guy who learns to spit the best game, it’s the ugly dude who has nothing but his words. It’s not the Lamborghini, fancy cloths, lock-in props, DHVs, magic tricks, deep voice, or six-pack abs. Spitting game in its purest form is nothing more than words and the willpower to use those words.
Now consider this: A low testosterone guy asks a girl out on a date and is told he did something wrong because he made her uncomfortable. Meanwhile that same girl’s favorite movie is Fifty Shades of Grey. She wants to be raped, just not by him. Yup, it’s only sexual harassment if you are sexually undesirable. Sorry, it’s the truth. The laws that could put you in jail are subjective.
Let me tie this all together with a metaphor. You do not learn how to sell if your product is a $5 cure for cancer. That product sells itself. Do you want to truly learn how to sell, how to sell anything? Start by selling cock-flavored breakfast cereal. If you can learn to sell that, you’ve got skills like no other!
Remember the movie Captain America? They turned the smallest guy they could find into an alpha male. And that was what made him so alpha, the fact that he knew what it was like to be very not alpha.
What I’m telling you is to learn how to shoot with a bb gun because you don’t learn anything hunting rabbits with a missile launcher.
Most men either have more knowledge or more testosterone. The extremely small number of men who have an abundance of both knowledge and testosterone rule the world. Willpower will give you that knowledge and testosterone can be supplemented.
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