Pornography

by Drawk Kwast – March 13th, 2011

bonobo sexA man and his young son are on vacation exploring Brazil. During their first day there, they see two monkeys in a tree and the son takes a picture. During the second day, the man inadvertently walks his son too close to a nude beach, and they see two naked people. His son takes a picture. Horrified, the man explains to his son that he has to erase the picture. The son asks why, and the father replies by saying, “Because it’s pornography, and if your mother sees that, I’ll be in a heap of trouble!”

Set your social conditioning aside for a moment and see this from the perspective of the son. When we see two monkeys in the jungle, we say, “Hey, look at the two monkeys.” Even though the monkeys are naked, we simply see it as two monkeys, because this is their natural state. However, when we see two humans in their natural state (naked), we exclaim, “Oh my, look at the two naked people!” Here is where it gets even more confusing. A picture of a naked monkey is simply a picture of a monkey, but a picture of a naked human is pornography. This doesn’t make any logical sense, unless you have forgotten the fact that both humans and monkeys are mammals, both are animals.

The human animal truly amazes me. It’s the most intelligent animal on the planet, yet somehow at the same time, its arrogance has it believing that it is not an animal. To understand what the concept of pornography actually is, all you have to understand is that the human animal is capable of an emotion known as shame. This is what sets it apart from the other animals and where the screwed up notion of pornography originated. Shame is its source.

Most women of low to average attractiveness condemn men for looking at pornography because of the shame those women feel about their own body. How could they ever compete with the centerfolds of Playboy? They hide behind their cloths and when a man eventually does see them naked, the real them, it’s a disappointment, and they know it. When you mix this with the lies of religion, that she will either use as an excuse, or as a flawed set of rules to live her life by, the problem becomes bigger and even more strange.

Let’s not forget about the men who publicly speak out against pornography. They all feel shame about their sexuality, and their leaders, the Catholic Priests, are known for forcing anal sex on underage boys. These people have sexual issues beyond even my comprehension.

So where does this leave you? Well if you can see the concept of pornography as a completely flawed human construct, and ignore the crazy low self-esteem people campaigning to make you feel the shame they do, you’re off to a good start. Next realize that just like with all the other animals on the planet, sex is one of the most natural processes in existence. Without it, every animal, including humans, would become extinct. It doesn’t get any more natural than the survival of every species of animal on the planet, and that’s something you have to feel good about. Next, go to the gym, eat better, and start dating only the most attractive women. My experience has been that the hotter a woman is, the more she likes porn, and the greater the chances are that she will pull another girl into your bed with you… and let you take pictures.

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Make Reality Your Bitch

by Drawk Kwast – February 5th, 2011

global dominationMy philosophy is simple, make reality your bitch. I’ve heard it said that life is what happens to you while you’re waiting for your plans to work out. What a waste of a life to spend it waiting for things to work out. I would much rather spend my time making reality my bitch.

Many positive thinkers suffer from an overdose of delusional positive thinking and a lack of action. They’re sure everything is just going to somehow work out for them. Positive thinking is not about believing that situations will magically workout for you. Positive thinking is about knowing that everything is going to fly off the rails at some point and having an unshakable faith in yourself that – no matter what – you will be able to take action, get things back under control, and get moving in the right direction again.

As an atheist, I have faith in myself the same way religious people have faith in a god. Gaining that faith is a process. People who live a life constantly going after what they want have practiced dealing with every shape and size of obstacle that could stand in their way. As they practice getting around today’s roadblocks, they insure that getting around tomorrow’s roadblocks will be easier.

If you want something, you are going to have to go for it because nothing in this world with any value will ever be simply given to you. As the Chinese say, “Man sit with mouth open long time before roast duck fly in.” You’re going to have to jump into the situations you want in life with both feet. Then just relax, because you’re not in control, you are learning how to be in control. Keep it up and one day reality will be your bitch.

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Why Men Prefer Sexy Dumb Girls

by Drawk Kwast – November 7th, 2010

Sexy Dumb GirlI was walking down Las Vegas Boulevard last night when I overheard two fat girls complaining that “… guys only go for dumb girls,” and they followed that statement with the question, “Wouldn’t a guy want to be with a girl he can have an intelligent conversation with?” Conversations like this drive me nuts, so it’s time to ignore the politically correct approach and set the record strait.

Guys want hot girls. It’s as simple as that. Any guy with any amount of self-respect wants to be with an attractive woman; and when I say attractive, I am talking about what she looks like. Guys don’t notice intelligence from 35 feet away, but they do notice a great rack and a tight ass. That’s what gets our attention.

When guys are out on the Las Vegas Strip, given the choice between an intelligent fat girl and a dumb hot girl, we will pick the dumb hot girl every time. In fact, we won’t even get close enough to the fat girl to notice how “intelligent” she is. Don’t get me wrong, intelligence has its place. Given the choice between a dumb hot girl and an intelligent hot girl, the girl with the 180 IQ will win my affections, no doubt. We prefer intelligence, but we crave sex. In our list of priorities, we have to actually want to have sex with you before we even consider your intelligence.

Amazingly enough, “intelligent” fat girls don’t seem to be able to figure out the most crucial part of this equation, no matter how smart they think they are. If the intelligent fat girls were so smart, they would get on a treadmill at the gym, stop shoveling McDonalds into their pie holes, and get skinny! Now, before you call me a male chauvinist pig, understand that I’m also talking about the health issues related to being more than 20 pounds over-weight. It just so happens that when a woman is in great physical shape, (skinny and healthy) guys are more attracted to her. It’s just that simple. We find women who lack the intelligence to balance their caloric intake, and the self-discipline to exercise correctly, to be very unattractive. Looks are not just a vanity issue; they are an indicator of self awareness, discipline, and intelligence. A fat girl’s appearance on the outside is a direct reflection of her problems on the inside.

So here is my challenge to all the “intelligent” fat girls out there… you’re smart, figure out how to get skinny. Show us through your looks that you are worthy of approach. Once you’re less than 125 pounds (unless you’re a giraffe), make a comment on this blog, and tell me if men seem more interested in having intelligent conversations with you.

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Spend Less and Get Laid More

by Drawk Kwast – September 29th, 2010

blingWhat if there was something you could do right now, that took zero effort, didn’t cost anything, and was guaranteed to get you laid more?

 

FACT #1) We are living in a bad economy where most guys are making less money, but still trying to pay for the same lifestyle they had years ago in the good economy.

FACT #2) This is causing those guys an incredible amount of stress.

FACT #3) Women don’t care about “stuff.” Women care about how they “feel” around you.

Connect the dots here and you discover an amazing thing. Spend less money, learn to live easily within your current financial means, lower your stress level, and you will find women to be much more responsive to your advances. When a guy under stress approaches a woman, she feels that stress and doesn’t want to be around it. When over 95% of the men around her are wound-tight with negative energy, they become even more responsive to the men who are care free.

Let go of your ego. Let go of that stuff you can’t afford anymore. Start paying off your credit cards and building your savings account back up. Lower your stress, breath easy, and sleep better. Then start talking to all the women around you. Be amazed at how much easier it is to get a date when you’re the only guy in the room smiling. Meet her at a Starbucks for some stimulating conversation (and where the total cost of the date will be under $10.00).

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Estrogen – The Attack On Manhood

by Drawk Kwast – September 4th, 2010

estrogen moleculePlastic is making androgynous pedophiles of us all. Put down the water bottle and listen up. The research is incredible. Most girls hit puberty now at age nine (you’re pretending not to notice, but I know you’ve noticed). If you take a look around on the Internet, lots of people are talking about why girls are becoming women so young, but the really disturbing news that no one seems to be talking about is how some of the same factors are turning boys into “little girls.”

Let’s start at the beginning, with why girls are hitting puberty so young. There are three major contributors to this. The first is childhood obesity, which America really excels at these days. Fat female children have an increased ability to convert hormones into estrogen. Nature has programmed a preference for a certain amount of body fat before female puberty. This is due to the extra fat needed to survive pregnancy, which also explains evolutionarily why women tend to carry a higher “healthy” body fat percentage than men. Give the female body more fat, at a younger age, and puberty happens sooner.

The second factor is what the US Food and Drug Administration allows to be added to our food. Two of the allowed hormones are progesterone and estradiol (which sounds very close to estrogen for a good reason). Both of these are natural female sex hormones. Pumping female hormones into food equals more female hormones in the bodies of young girls, resulting in puberty faster.

The third reason you’re feeling guilty for lusting after underage girls is plastic. Most plastic bags come with a “danger of suffocation warning” on them somewhere. The warning that needs to be added is the danger of estrogen-mimicking chemicals that easily leach out, and contaminate everything they touch. These chemicals are Bisphenol A (BPA), Phthalates, and Perfluorooctanoic Acid (PFOA). Think about all those food and beverage containers and you understand how everyone is receiving a constant trickle of estrogen-mimicking chemicals. And you thought you were just drinking water.

I hate it when I have to agree with the tree-huggers, who have been claiming for years that we’re poisoning ourselves, but the reality is that we are poisoning ourselves. Young girls are getting an overdose of estrogen, but this is only the beginning of the story. Everyone is concerned about young girls, but no one seems to care that boys are getting that same overdose of estrogen. If too much estrogen is bad in girls, what do you think this is doing to boys?

When I look at the average boy these days, I cannot believe what I see. Most don’t even look like boys anymore. They are being pumped full of estrogen and pulled away from physical activities like sports. Physical Education in our schools is a total joke these days. Physical activity promotes the production of testosterone. Boys need testosterone to become men. A man with high estrogen and low testosterone is not a man. A fat 12-year-old boy with bitch tits is not on the path to healthy manhood.

So what can men like you and me do to prevent this in ourselves? One option is to start grocery shopping like a hippy and use glass containers rather than plastic. Another option is blocking estrogen. Ask the alpha male at your local gym, and you’ll find that he’s on some kind of anti-estrogen product. Estrogen blockers work by binding to the estrogen receptors in the body, preventing estrogen from binding to these sites, literally blocking the estrogen. The newer and more advanced anti-estrogen products are called “aromatase inhibitors” and they work by inhibiting the formation of estrogen in the body.

One final word of advice – stop eating soy! Soy is loaded with estrogen. I realize this ruins the idea of dipping your sushi in soy sauce (unless you happen to be on an anti-estrogen), but there’s a reason why only women and gay men eat tofu.

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Exercise vs. Prozac – A Battle for Survival

by Drawk Kwast – July 30th, 2010

Exercise vs. ProzacA guy who is 100 pounds overweight, with no friends, girlfriend, or job, who sits at home playing video games is supposed to be depressed. That’s the way nature has evolved us. In the game of survival of the fittest, it feels good to be the alpha male and it feels bad not to be. If it wasn’t that way, what reason would a guy have to go out and succeed? Failure is supposed to hurt, so we avoid it. Success is supposed to feel good, so we seek it. If a person can sit at home, loaded on Prozac, completely happy with their worthless life, what reason do they have to better themselves? None. This is a huge problem, not only for them, but for the society they should be contributing to.

Consider this. One hundred years ago, antidepressants didn’t exist, and natural selection was still functioning relatively well. Girls who were extremely emotionally unbalanced had a difficult time finding a man willing to marry them and have kids. In other words, through natural selection, the girls with the most problems had the least kids. This is a good thing because our species got stronger as the weakness was bred out. In the 1950′s when the first antidepressant Iproniazid hit the public, everything changed. It didn’t take long before every housewife in America was loaded on happy pills. Shortly following the women, guys started taking them also. Today we are literally breeding weakness into our species by sweeping it under the rug with drugs. The emotionally unfit can simply cover up the symptoms, mate just as easily as the fit, and have lots of children. The result is a greater percentage of the population with the very same problem these drugs were created to combat, and it will get worse generation after generation.

Am I saying that depressed people need to be weeded out of society? Not exactly. What I’m saying is that antidepressants need to be prescribed only when every other option has been exhausted. Rather than allowing pharmaceutical companies to spend billions of dollars on advertisements asking the public if they ever feel “down” (which is everyone) and paying doctors every time they give out Prozac like it’s candy, we need to prescribe exercise.

A study conducted at Duke University in the late 1990′s divided depressed patients into three treatment groups. The first group was treated with exercise only. The second group was treated with exercise and antidepressant medication. The third group was treated with antidepressant medication only. At six weeks the drug only group was doing only slightly better than the other two groups. After 10 months however, the exercise only group was doing the best. Yes, even better than the exercise and drug group. Like I said, for the vast majority of people suffering from depression, antidepressant drugs hurt them.

The bottom line is that studies show 30 minutes of high intensity aerobic exercise 3 to 5 times a week will cut depressive symptoms by over 50%. That is very impressive when you consider that exercise is free and has a plethora of other health benefits. This is why in some countries like the UK, antidepressants are not used as the first line of therapy for mild to moderate depression. Doctors there write out a prescription to see an exercise counselor instead.

Besides regulating the happy chemicals in your brain, serotonin and norepinephrine, after about two weeks exercise turns on genes that increase galanin, a neurotransmitter that lowers your body’s stress response. Testosterone also increases naturally, and the more of that a guy has in his system, the less of a chance you will find him in the corner of a dark room crying like a little girl. And let’s not forget those endorphins. I love endorphins, they are the number one reason I go to the gym. I do between one and two hours of weights, followed by one hour of cardio that holds my heart rate at 80% to 90% of my maximum heart rate. By the time I leave the gym, I’m feeling nothing short of euphoria.

We live in a world where everyone wants a pill to make them look good and feel good. The truth is our bodies evolved over thousands of years to do one hour of strenuous exercise a day which gives you all that. Healthy, happy, and sane is paid for in the gym with sweat, end of story.

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Cocaine Psychology

by Drawk Kwast – May 28th, 2010

man doing cocaineDrawk Kwast and Shelton Keith Hill talk about Cocaine Psychology. This is their name for the common method of therapy and self-help used these days in which people are made to temporarily feel good about their problems, without actually doing anything to fix the core issues. The result is a hangover state in which the client feels even worse and then seeks out yet another hit of Cocaine Psychology.

Shelton Keith Hill is a relationship coach, college professor who is certified in NLP and Hypnotherapy, and a PhD candidate in psychology.

Drawk Kwast’s methods have been called unconventional, and he makes no apologies as he teaches men how to dominate the competition at work, attract the most desirable women on the planet, and ultimately achieve a fulfilling life. Forbes, USA Today, Details, Worth, and Entrepreneur have all recognized his ability to transform clients’ desires into reality through his 60-day Total Experience Immersion training program. His first book, Domination Basics: Secrets of the Alpha Male Book 1 (ISBN 1453801898), is available at Amazon.com and wherever books are sold. Visit his website at www.drawkkwast.com.

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We Would Fail Kindergarten

by Drawk Kwast – May 11th, 2010

kindergarten play blocksDrawk Kwast and Mike Murray talk about con artistry, the life of a technology entrepreneur, how they have fun with strangers, and why they would both fail another year of kindergarten.

Mike Murray is a serial entrepreneur who has spent more than a decade helping companies and individuals understand how they can be exploited by those with nefarious influence skills. From his work in the late 90′s as a penetration tester and vulnerability researcher to leadership positions at nCircle, Neohapsis and Liberty Mutual Insurance Group, his focus has always been on using vulnerability assessment through penetration testing and social engineering to proactively defend organizations. Mike co-founded MAD Security, where he leads engagements to help corporate and government customers understand and protect their security organization . He is also in charge of the advanced curriculum of The Hacker Academy, an advanced online training environment focused on the newest methods of computer penetration testing and social engineering. Mike has a variety of other diverse interests, from his work on human systems and influence to his work work with many people on their careers both within the security industry (through InfoSec Leaders with Lee Kushner) and outside of security (through the Connected Career). Mike’s thoughts on security can be found on his blog at Episteme.ca, and his work on helping build careers can be found at InfoSecLeaders.com and ConnectedCareer.com.

Drawk Kwast’s methods have been called unconventional, and he makes no apologies as he teaches men how to dominate the competition at work, attract the most desirable women on the planet, and ultimately achieve a fulfilling life. Forbes, USA Today, Details, Worth, and Entrepreneur have all recognized his ability to transform clients’ desires into reality through his 60-day Total Experience Immersion training program. His first book, Domination Basics: Secrets of the Alpha Male Book 1 (ISBN 1453801898), is available at Amazon.com and wherever books are sold. Visit his website at www.drawkkwast.com.

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Codependency Flip

by Drawk Kwast – April 17th, 2010

I found myself on Wikipedia, researching the patterns for codependency, when I made a most interesting discovery. As an Alpha Male Life Coach, I basically teach the opposite of codependency. I teach inner-dependency (better known as independence). Here’s where I took an interesting leap in logic. If a codependent person meets everyone else’s needs at the exclusion of their own, wouldn’t the opposite of this be a person who meets their needs to the exclusion of everyone else’s? I had a huge problem with that conclusion because I don’t consider being independent to go hand in hand with being a narcissist, a sociopath, or simply just not caring about others.

So let’s start at the beginning. If I read the patterns for codependency, as listed in Wikipedia, and reverse them to reflect what I teach, I come up with the following list:

I easily identify how I am feeling and have no issue letting others know exactly how I feel.

I do not think it is selfish to take care of my needs. I know that my basic needs must be met before I will have the resources to help others.

I make quick decisions based on the best information I have available to me in that moment. I live without regret, because I know I made the best decision I could have at the time, even though new information after the fact may show my errors. I accept and value my failures as learning experiences.

I have no problem accepting praise for a job well done, but I don’t let my ego distract me from getting back to work and making future advances.

I have no problem asking others for help. Only an idiot would drown rather than admit he doesn’t know how to swim by asking for a life raft.

I have a list of people whose opinions I value based on past experience with them. I welcome their advice and criticism as a path to better my work and myself. The opinions of those whom I have not preselected are irrelevant and do not affect my mood or decisions. The things the average person will say about me reflect more on them than on me.

I am worthy of love, friendship, and enjoyable social interaction. My true value is in my ability to manage my emotional state and positively affect the emotional states of others.

I am open to explore the possibility that I may be wrong. I have no problem quickly letting go of incorrect concepts that I had previously been using to guide my actions. At the same time, I never compromise my integrity. I believe that those who don’t have the balls to be hated don’t deserve to be loved.

I place everything second to my life mission. A person aimlessly wandering around is not attractive to women or worthy of high-value male friends.

I know when to hold on to value that others don’t see and when to let go of something that isn’t enjoyable or moving me towards my goal. I am very loyal, but only to those who have shown themselves to deserve it.

I believe that no one cares about my goals as much as I do, nor should they, but I know when to call a specialist who will do a better job than I can.

It is easier to find people I resonate with rather than trying to convince others to see things my way. I understand the huge difference between letting go and giving up.

The best relationships are when neither person needs the other for anything. They are both completely independent. This leaves both people sure that the other person is with them just because they enjoy spending time together. The perfect romantic relationship is defined as two people accomplishing separate goals, together.

This list is interesting to me, because I have never categorized the results of what I teach in this way before. As I go though this little exercise, I am reminded what I think about the question if the human population is inherently good or inherently evil. I think that answer changes based on whether a person’s self-perceived needs are being met or not. This is the outdated “moral” question of, “Is it ok for a man to steal bread to feed his family?” I remember back in my psychology 101 class answering that question with another question, “Is his family fat?”

I think that in general the human population will help its fellow man in a time of need. I think in times of crisis, we see those with resources helping those who truly need it. Hearing these stories makes us feel good to be part of the human race. I also think that if a man has to choose between letting his family suffer or hurting someone else to alleviate the suffering of his family, you will be amazed at what he will do. Nietzsche once said that the character of a man is not built out of the experiences he has had, but rather because of the experiences he has not had. He may be completely correct.

I think what it comes down to is simply this. When I travel by airplane, they always tell me to “secure my oxygen mask before helping secure the oxygen masks of others.” I have never bothered to ask them why they say this. As an alpha male, I understand that if I pass out from lack of oxygen, I’m not going to be able to help very many people.

I’m honest with myself. I know that self preservation will always be top of the list. After that, though, life is a party, and a party without any guests is very boring. Treat your guests the same way you would want to be treated if you were at their party. True happiness is nothing more than your happiness reflected back to you through others.

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It’s Complicated

by Drawk Kwast – April 15th, 2010

Norman is having drinks with Jessica. Jessica’s phone rings and she answers with, “Hello Steve.” After a quick one minute phone call, Norman asks Jessica who Steve is and Jessica’s answer is, “It’s complicated.” The truth is, it’s not complicated at all. Whenever a woman answers a question by telling you, “It’s complicated,” it’s actually very, very simple. Are you ready to decode this girl talk and learn what “It’s complicated” really means?

Whenever a woman tells you, “It’s complicated,” you can be 100% sure that two things are going on. First, that there is another guy somehow involved in her life, and second, if you and this other guy knew the all the details of the two relationships, both of you would be upset. When a woman answers a direct question with, “It’s complicated,” she is saying that if she told you, you would be upset, and she hopes that by saying, “It’s complicated,” that you will not press her for answers. This works because women have conditioned us to not want to listen to their long-winded, illogical, “complicated” answers. Here are three examples of how this scenario works.

Example one. A guy knocks on your girlfriend’s door while you are over watching a movie. He is returning a measuring cup. You ask your girl who that was and she tells you, “It’s complicated.” If it’s just the guy next door returning a measuring cup he borrowed, how is this at all complicated? He is just returning a measuring cup. Enough said: it’s very simple. “It’s complicated” can only mean one of two things. The first option is that the guy likes her, and she knows it. She isn’t interested in him, but she is smart enough to string him along just in case her toilet ever needs unclogging. The second option is that she likes him, more than she likes you. As soon as she can get her hooks into this guy, you’re done. Again, if it was just the guy next door returning a measuring cup, and that’s all there was to this story, there is nothing complicated about it.

Example two. You’re on a first date with a girl in college. Some dorky guy comes up to you and says hello to your date. After he leaves, you ask who he was, and she tells you, “It’s complicated.” There is nothing complicated about replying with, “He is just some guy in one of my classes.” What is really going on, if it’s complicated, is that she knows he likes her. She is stringing this guy along because she doesn’t want to “hurt him” by being honest and telling him he doesn’t have a chance. She is also keeping him in reserve for favors in class like help with homework. Again, it’s all very simple.

Example three. You have just ordered an expensive bottle of champagne at a nice restaurant with your date, when some douche-bag with a perfect tan and a plastic smile walks over to your table. He completely ignores you, and your date giggles like an amused 9-year-old as she says hello. After he leaves, you ask who he was. She tells you, “It’s complicated.” Are you starting to catch on here? He is the guy she will be having sex with, after she has drained your wallet only to give you a good night hug followed by telling you how good of a friend you are. A girl will never directly tell you, “I’m not attracted to you. You have zero chance getting me into bed. I am, however, willing to let you think otherwise while you pay for dinner.”

So the next time a woman tells you, “It’s complicated,” just know there is another guy involved and one, if not both, of you are being used like a tool. So what do you do when you can finally see reality for what it is? Do you confront her on it? No. It does you zero good to “talk about it,” and in most cases you will be digging a grave for yourself. Only a beta male cries to a girl about how he is being hurt. If you’re not having sex with this girl, it’s time to start having sex with her right now or stop answering her phone calls. Make your move, and be bold. When she calls asking you to come over and move her couch, tell her you will be over in 5 minutes to lick chocolate sauce off of her naked body. Then get in the car and drive over because you are a man of action, not words. When she sees you at her door 5 minutes later with a bottle of chocolate sauce in hand, well, just trust me on this, the look on her face will be priceless. Make your move!

As a man, you let her know that your relationship has nothing to do with moving couches by simply never moving a couch for her. If you are having sex with her, why should you care if there are other guys? She has other guys in her life, like any other attractive woman, and you have other girls in your life, because you’re not some desperate idiot who enters into exclusive, committed relationships at the drop of a hat. Got it? Good. At some point, if you are doing your job correctly, she will not want to have sex with any other guy but you. After that happens and she decides to keep a few “we are just friends” guys in her life, you’re a happy man because they can do her favors while she is doing you.

If you want to have some real fun with, “It’s complicated,” during the first few months of dating a new girl, flip the script. The next time a girl asks you a question, answer with, “It’s complicated,” followed by changing the subject. The more she likes you, the more of a reaction you will get. The best part is that she will tell you she is angry because you aren’t being open and honest with her, and that it’s probably very simple. You see, she knows the game all too well.

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