Musical Taste and Influence

trance musicThere is a direct and very strong relationship between your brain and the type of music you listen to. Your preference of beats per minute indicates your intelligence level, while the lyrics you listen to have a hypnotic effect as they influence your thinking and behavior at an unconscious level.

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Seeing the Girl That’s Not There

Girl Playing a CharacterIt is said that the world is a stage and we are all just actors. This is something to keep in mind when meeting a woman for the first time, because you’re interacting with the character she presents to you, not the real her. The trick to getting to know a woman is seeing the girl that’s not there.

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Do the Best You Can

Success and FailureAt what point did society begin using this expression as a motivator? Instead of encouraging success, the saying is only a way for children to feel good, win or lose, no matter what they actually do. It has become a poison in our society, preventing people from gaining self-sufficiency. It may seem innocent enough when applied to a third-grade dodge-ball game, but it’s not so innocent when it causes children to grow up believing that it applies in the real world, where it does not.

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Who Apologizes?

couple arguingIn any relationship there are going to be times when you and your girl don’t agree on things. These disagreements can easily turn into arguments. Arguments, fueled by runaway emotions, can then turn into full-blown fights. A guy can gauge his relationship skills by how these situations end.

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Southwest Pilot Rant

southwestA good friend of mine forwarded me a news article about a Southwest Airline pilot who wasn’t aware that his microphone was on as he broadcast from cruising altitude his dissatisfaction with the quantity of “doable” flight attendants.

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The Strong Links

weakest linkSociety is like a chain. Over time, society has learned that it is only as strong as its weakest links, the people. Put too much stress on the chain, the weakest links break, and society falls apart. So, the rules were created to protect the weak links and make sure that the chain doesn’t fall apart.

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Intelligent Conversation or Having Fun

Picture of a guy giving an attractive girl a piggyback ride.My client tells me that he just can’t find a woman that he’s interested in, and I know we’re in real trouble as he goes on to tell me, “I’m looking for woman that I can have an intelligent conversation with.” Over the years that I’ve coached men into awesome relationships with women, I’ve noticed a pattern with guys who make this statement. They’re all too smart for their own good, and none of them know how to have fun.

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