Society is like a chain. Over time, society has learned that it is only as strong as its weakest links, the people. Put too much stress on the chain, the weakest links break, and society falls apart. So, the rules were created to protect the weak links and make sure that the chain doesn’t fall apart.
My client tells me that he just can’t find a woman that he’s interested in, and I know we’re in real trouble as he goes on to tell me, “I’m looking for woman that I can have an intelligent conversation with.” Over the years that I’ve coached men into awesome relationships with women, I’ve noticed a pattern with guys who make this statement. They’re all too smart for their own good, and none of them know how to have fun.
A man and his young son are on vacation exploring Brazil. During their first day there, they see two monkeys in a tree and the son takes a picture. During the second day, the man inadvertently walks his son too close to a nude beach, and they see two naked people. His son takes a picture. Horrified, the man explains to his son that he has to erase the picture. The son asks why, and the father replies by saying, “Because it’s pornography, and if your mother sees that, I’ll be in a heap of trouble!”
My philosophy is simple, make reality your bitch. I’ve heard it said that life is what happens to you while you’re waiting for your plans to work out. What a waste of a life to spend it waiting for things to work out. I would much rather spend my time making reality my bitch.
I was walking down Las Vegas Boulevard last night when I overheard two fat girls complaining that “… guys only go for dumb girls,” and they followed that statement with the question, “Wouldn’t a guy want to be with a girl he can have an intelligent conversation with?” Conversations like this drive me nuts, so it’s time to ignore the politically correct approach and set the record strait.
What if there was something you could do right now, that took zero effort, didn’t cost anything, and was guaranteed to get you laid more?
Plastic is making androgynous pedophiles of us all. Put down the water bottle and listen up. The research is incredible. Most girls hit puberty now at age nine (you’re pretending not to notice, but I know you’ve noticed). If you take a look around on the Internet, lots of people are talking about why girls are becoming women so young, but the really disturbing news that no one seems to be talking about is how some of the same factors are turning boys into “little girls.”
A guy who is 100 pounds overweight, with no friends, girlfriend, or job, who sits at home playing video games is supposed to be depressed. That’s the way nature has evolved us. In the game of survival of the fittest, it feels good to be the alpha male and it feels bad not to be. If it wasn’t that way, what reason would a guy have to go out and succeed? Failure is supposed to hurt, so we avoid it. Success is supposed to feel good, so we seek it. If a person can sit at home, loaded on Prozac, completely happy with their worthless life, what reason do they have to better themselves?
I found myself on Wikipedia, researching the patterns for codependency, when I made a most interesting discovery. As an Alpha Male Life Coach, I basically teach the opposite of codependency. I teach inner-dependency (better known as independence). Here’s where I took an interesting leap in logic. If a codependent person meets everyone else’s needs at the exclusion of their own, wouldn’t the opposite of this be a person who meets their needs to the exclusion of everyone else’s? I had a huge problem with that conclusion because I don’t consider being independent to go hand in hand with being a narcissist, a sociopath, or simply just not caring about others.
Norman is having drinks with Jessica. Jessica’s phone rings and she answers with, “Hello Steve.” After a quick one minute phone call, Norman asks Jessica who Steve is and Jessica’s answer is, “It’s complicated.” The truth is, it’s not complicated at all. Whenever a woman answers a question by telling you, “It’s complicated,” it’s actually very, very simple. Are you ready to decode this girl talk and learn what “It’s complicated” really means?