His name is Ziggy. He earns silly amounts of money without effort, is a magnet for ridiculously attractive women, and makes James Bond look socially inept in comparison. I remember the day I met him. It was the day I realized that different people live in different versions of reality. The world in which I lived at the time was one of frustration, confusion, and neediness. From the second I met Ziggy, I could see that he lived in a very different world, one of ease, understanding, and abundance. I wanted what he had and I wasn’t shy about asking him how he did it. A massive amount of excitement swept through me as he began his answer with, “Let me tell you what I know about women…”
All women have an expiration date. He told me that there is a point in every relationship when the thrill of getting the girl turns into either the fear of losing her or the pain of not being able to get rid of her. There is a thrill in the chase and a rush that comes over you the first time you enjoy intense sexual pleasure together. This is an incredible thing, he said, but the very nature of it is fleeting, which means it cannot last. No woman ages in reverse; instead, her beauty will fade. A perfect love that burns intensely bright must also fade. Every flower blooms only once and eventually fades, but tomorrow will bring new flowers. You may know how you feel about her today, but you don’t know how you will feel about her tomorrow and, more importantly, you don’t know how you will feel about the women you have yet to meet in the future. All women have an expiration date.
Place this number in your mind, half your age plus seven. The perfect age for a female companion, according to Ziggy, is always half your age plus seven. If you are 24 years old, you will find the perfect age for a woman at 19. If you are 40, she is 27. When you hit 80, it will be 47 for her. As yesterday’s flowers fade, this is how to pick today’s flowers. Over the years, I have met many of his new wives and mistresses. They all fit this equation; half his age plus seven.
Easier to say “I’m done” than “Here’s half.” Ziggy told me he once put together an Excel spreadsheet to calculate the total financial cost of all his divorces and mistresses. He told me it would have been cheaper for him to have had sex parties in Vegas with multiple strippers every weekend for the last 20 years. He told me marriage should only be considered in the case of wanting to have children. Even then, you will regret it when you eventually find yourself standing beside your divorce lawyer in front of a judge. I will never forget how he explained that you may always be in love with the woman you married, but the woman you married is nowhere near the same person you divorced. They are two totally different people. Be ready to walk out in a second when that change happens and make it easy on yourself by not leaving her half of your bank account. Just remember, it is much easier to say “I’m done” than “Here’s half.”
So, how did these rules work out for him? Every time I see him, he’s in the company of an amazingly attractive young woman who adores every second spent with him. Ziggy is a man who enjoys every moment of life despite the fact that he knows the moment will not last. He can do this because he knows all the great moments will be followed by many others.
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